For those of us who are of a certain age and in the know, remember the TV show called The Brady Bunch. We can still see some of the old TV shows that we grew up with back in the day. Gilligan’s Island, The Thunder Cats , Andy Griffith and yes The Brady Bunch.
The other day I was flipping through the channels and stumbled across the Brady Bunch. The episode that was playing, was the one when peter’s voice was changing and they made the song when it’s time to change, it’s time to rearrange.
I hated that episode, because peter’s voice was so annoying. For years when it would come on, I would either turn it off or just not watch it. Now here it is again. So I watch the episode that I have hated for all these years.
I sat and watched it. Peter’s voice was still annoying. But now hearing Peters cracking, squeaky and irritating voice, I understood his point of view. Peter can’t help the change. He’s growing up. He’s experiencing new things with his body and his voice changing is just one of those changes about Peter. Unfortunately, his squeaky voice will irritate those close to him, even though it is beyond his control.
The change has to come. Whenever we decide to make a change in our lives, we realize that it may be a difficult task. Depending on the change we would like to achieve for ourselves, those close to us may be irritated by the new change in us.
This may be a good thing for those who are trying to change. Humans are creatures of habit. We get comfortable doing things and we get comfortable not doing things. The keyword is comfortable.
Your change comes harder when you are comfortable. Change is effort. Change is hard work, change is uncomfortable for you and It’s uncomfortable for those close to you. Your change may be harder for those close to you to accept, when your change begin.
People say nobody likes change, but we all have to change. What we really don’t like is the ”I don’t recognize you phase”. This is when those who are close to you are experiencing your actual change and when they were very comfortable with the old you.
Just know that your change is for the betterment of you and if you are better all-around, you will experience your improvement. Your improvement will only prepare you for your future and those who stay around will see your change.
Hopefully, they will be inspired and make changes for the betterment of their lives. Birds of a feather make improvement changes for the better, together.
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